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One time I was at this karaoke with a

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bunch of like some Japanese, some

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non-Japanese and I sang my wonder and I

non-Japanese and I sang my wonder and I was<00:00:05.359> just<00:00:05.600> looking<00:00:05.839> like<00:00:06.000> I<00:00:06.160> hated<00:00:06.400> it.<00:00:06.560> And

was just looking like I hated it. And

was just looking like I hated it. And this<00:00:06.960> old<00:00:07.440> Japanese<00:00:07.839> man,<00:00:08.160> his<00:00:08.400> name<00:00:08.559> was

this old Japanese man, his name was

this old Japanese man, his name was Hiroshi<00:00:09.280> said,<00:00:09.360> "Come<00:00:09.599> sit<00:00:09.760> next<00:00:09.920> to<00:00:10.080> me."<00:00:10.320> And

Hiroshi said, "Come sit next to me." And

Hiroshi said, "Come sit next to me." And he<00:00:10.719> said<00:00:10.800> to<00:00:11.040> me,<00:00:12.400> "What<00:00:12.800> you<00:00:12.960> need<00:00:13.040> to

he said to me, "What you need to

he said to me, "What you need to understand<00:00:13.599> about<00:00:14.000> karaoke<00:00:14.559> is<00:00:15.280> it<00:00:15.519> doesn't

understand about karaoke is it doesn't

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matter whether you sing well or sing

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badly. What matters is your guests have

badly. What matters is your guests have a<00:00:21.359> good<00:00:21.520> time."<00:00:22.320> And<00:00:22.560> I<00:00:22.720> didn't<00:00:22.960> really

a good time." And I didn't really

a good time." And I didn't really realize<00:00:23.519> that.<00:00:23.760> I'd<00:00:24.000> been<00:00:24.160> going<00:00:24.320> in<00:00:24.480> with

realize that. I'd been going in with

realize that. I'd been going in with this<00:00:24.880> like<00:00:25.119> quite

this like quite

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stupid, quite selfish, quite quite

stupid, quite selfish, quite quite English,<00:00:30.400> quite<00:00:30.640> western<00:00:30.960> mentality,<00:00:31.359> which

English, quite western mentality, which

English, quite western mentality, which is<00:00:31.679> I'm<00:00:31.840> supposed<00:00:32.000> to<00:00:32.160> sing<00:00:32.399> well<00:00:32.640> and<00:00:32.880> I'm

is I'm supposed to sing well and I'm

is I'm supposed to sing well and I'm getting<00:00:33.440> self-conscious.<00:00:34.160> And<00:00:34.320> then<00:00:34.399> they

getting self-conscious. And then they

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were like, "No, what you want to do is

were like, "No, what you want to do is you<00:00:35.840> want<00:00:36.000> to<00:00:36.079> make<00:00:36.160> everyone<00:00:36.480> else<00:00:36.640> have<00:00:36.719> a

you want to make everyone else have a

you want to make everyone else have a good<00:00:36.960> time."<00:00:37.200> And<00:00:37.360> then<00:00:37.600> I<00:00:37.840> kind<00:00:38.000> of<00:00:38.160> changed

good time." And then I kind of changed

good time." And then I kind of changed the<00:00:38.719> way<00:00:38.800> that<00:00:38.960> I<00:00:39.600> approached<00:00:40.000> karaoke<00:00:40.480> and<00:00:40.640> I

the way that I approached karaoke and I

the way that I approached karaoke and I would<00:00:40.879> try<00:00:41.040> to<00:00:41.280> make<00:00:41.360> a<00:00:41.520> bit<00:00:41.600> of<00:00:41.680> a<00:00:41.840> joke<00:00:41.920> of<00:00:42.079> it

would try to make a bit of a joke of it

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and try to make everybody else enjoy it.

and try to make everybody else enjoy it. And<00:00:43.600> what<00:00:43.840> what<00:00:44.079> I<00:00:44.239> found<00:00:44.480> was

And what what I found was

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when I started focusing on making the

when I started focusing on making the other<00:00:47.039> people<00:00:47.200> around<00:00:47.520> me<00:00:47.680> enjoy<00:00:47.920> it<00:00:48.079> more,<00:00:48.800> I

other people around me enjoy it more, I

other people around me enjoy it more, I also<00:00:49.600> enjoyed<00:00:50.000> it<00:00:50.399> much<00:00:50.640> more.<00:00:50.960> And<00:00:51.120> I<00:00:51.360> kind<00:00:51.520> of

also enjoyed it much more. And I kind of

also enjoyed it much more. And I kind of felt<00:00:51.840> that<00:00:52.079> like<00:00:52.320> this<00:00:52.719> I<00:00:53.039> I<00:00:53.840> being<00:00:54.160> raised<00:00:54.399> in

felt that like this I I being raised in

felt that like this I I being raised in this<00:00:54.879> like<00:00:55.199> get<00:00:55.440> rich<00:00:55.600> or<00:00:55.760> die<00:00:56.000> trying

this like get rich or die trying

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culture. I'd kind of allowed myself to

culture. I'd kind of allowed myself to believe<00:00:59.280> that<00:00:59.600> in<00:00:59.840> life<00:01:00.480> you<00:01:00.719> have<00:01:00.879> a<00:01:01.039> choice

believe that in life you have a choice

believe that in life you have a choice between<00:01:02.000> do<00:01:02.160> you<00:01:02.239> take<00:01:02.399> care<00:01:02.480> of<00:01:02.640> yourself<00:01:02.879> or

between do you take care of yourself or

between do you take care of yourself or do<00:01:03.199> you<00:01:03.280> worry<00:01:03.440> about<00:01:03.680> worry<00:01:03.920> about<00:01:04.000> other

do you worry about worry about other

do you worry about worry about other people<00:01:04.559> and<00:01:04.720> you<00:01:04.879> have<00:01:05.040> to<00:01:05.119> take<00:01:05.280> care<00:01:05.360> of

people and you have to take care of

people and you have to take care of yourselves<00:01:05.760> cuz<00:01:05.920> no<00:01:06.080> one<00:01:06.159> is<00:01:06.320> going<00:01:06.400> to<00:01:06.479> take

yourselves cuz no one is going to take

yourselves cuz no one is going to take care<00:01:07.040> of<00:01:07.280> you.<00:01:07.840> And<00:01:08.000> then<00:01:08.240> from<00:01:08.400> my<00:01:08.640> time<00:01:08.799> in

care of you. And then from my time in

care of you. And then from my time in Japan<00:01:09.280> I<00:01:09.439> realized<00:01:09.840> that<00:01:10.000> I<00:01:10.320> think<00:01:10.560> really

Japan I realized that I think really

Japan I realized that I think really personally<00:01:12.479> I<00:01:12.720> think<00:01:12.880> that<00:01:13.119> makes<00:01:13.280> us<00:01:13.600> smaller

personally I think that makes us smaller

personally I think that makes us smaller as<00:01:14.320> humans<00:01:14.960> to<00:01:15.119> to<00:01:15.520> think<00:01:15.600> that<00:01:15.840> you<00:01:16.000> you<00:01:16.320> can

as humans to to think that you you can

as humans to to think that you you can only<00:01:16.640> be<00:01:16.880> all<00:01:17.119> for<00:01:17.280> me<00:01:17.920> or<00:01:18.080> or<00:01:18.400> nothing<00:01:18.640> for<00:01:18.799> me.

only be all for me or or nothing for me.

only be all for me or or nothing for me. I<00:01:19.280> think<00:01:19.360> that<00:01:19.600> we<00:01:20.080> have<00:01:20.240> the<00:01:20.479> capacity<00:01:20.799> as

I think that we have the capacity as

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humans to both be selfish and care for

humans to both be selfish and care for ourselves<00:01:24.320> and<00:01:24.479> I<00:01:24.640> think<00:01:24.720> that<00:01:24.880> you<00:01:25.040> have<00:01:25.200> to

ourselves and I think that you have to

ourselves and I think that you have to do<00:01:25.439> that.<00:01:25.600> you<00:01:25.759> have<00:01:26.000> if<00:01:26.159> you<00:01:26.240> don't<00:01:26.400> care

do that. you have if you don't care

do that. you have if you don't care about<00:01:26.720> look<00:01:26.880> after<00:01:27.040> you<00:01:27.200> who's<00:01:27.360> going<00:01:27.439> to<00:01:27.520> look

about look after you who's going to look

about look after you who's going to look after<00:01:27.920> you<00:01:28.400> and<00:01:28.640> also<00:01:29.040> care<00:01:29.280> for<00:01:29.439> others<00:01:29.920> you

after you and also care for others you

after you and also care for others you know<00:01:30.799> I<00:01:31.040> think<00:01:31.119> that<00:01:31.360> we've<00:01:31.600> really<00:01:31.920> made<00:01:32.320> made

know I think that we've really made made

know I think that we've really made made people<00:01:33.520> smaller<00:01:34.079> in<00:01:34.400> by<00:01:34.720> convincing<00:01:35.119> them

people smaller in by convincing them

people smaller in by convincing them that<00:01:35.520> they<00:01:35.680> that<00:01:35.920> they<00:01:36.079> have<00:01:36.240> to<00:01:36.320> be<00:01:36.479> selfish<00:01:36.960> I

that they that they have to be selfish I

that they that they have to be selfish I think<00:01:37.200> and<00:01:37.840> that<00:01:38.079> means<00:01:38.240> that<00:01:38.400> they<00:01:38.640> can't

think and that means that they can't

think and that means that they can't give<00:01:39.200> as<00:01:39.360> well<00:01:39.600> I<00:01:39.759> think<00:01:39.920> like<00:01:40.240> 100%<00:01:41.439> you<00:01:41.680> can

give as well I think like 100% you can

give as well I think like 100% you can do<00:01:42.079> both<00:01:42.720> you<00:01:42.960> should<00:01:43.119> do<00:01:43.360> Oh.